Would these lips lie?

"I believe in honesty.............."
"My eyes are not brown................"
"You are just so jaded that you don't
believe me........................"

The Type: Peter Orr goes for women who are large (especially busty women), and who are either Christians, or have self-esteem issues, or both. In other words, he appears to be looking for weakness or a kindness that he can exploit. It be one's body image, it may be a traumatic background, or it may just be that one is a kind-hearted and trusting person. His consistent pattern is do date at least one brunette and one blonde at the same time.

The Claim:
Peter Orr claims to be a Christian, with strong family values, who has a lot of female friends (because they find him to be a compassionate, helpful man and a good listener), and a commitment to monogamy and honesty in a relationship. He also claims that he is in the process of being divorced because of his wife's infidelity, and (becasue he believes so strongly in the marriage bond) that he would have stayed and worked it out, except for the fact his wife refused to do so. Peter Orr will assert that he is over his wife, and ready to date, because he has gone to conselling. And any issue raised regarding his behavior in a relationship, is likely to be avoided and burried by his merely claiming that it is something that he will work out with his consellor (whom he will conveniently claim later not to have the money to see).

"I am a Christian."

"I respect women, and have a lot of women friends."

"My marriage ended because my wife cheated on me."

"I have seen a counsellor, and worked out my issues around the divorce."

The Technique You may well ask yourself, how does someone as intellectually mediocre, lacking in personality, and unattractive as Peter Orr even get the opportunity to date, let alone be chronically unfaithful? A partial answer is that Peter Orr has no compunction about lying (even in the face of absolute, hard proof against his lies), and that he targets women who, by virtue of their charitable nature or their slight inclination for codependency, are naturally predisposed to believe him.
However, Peter Orr also tends to structure his life so that he always has an excuse or a cover. If you call when he is supposed to be home at night, and he is really in bed with another woman, he will later claim that he took some of his sleeping pills, and went to bed really early, and didn't hear the phone. If he needs to get away with one of his other girlfriends, he will claim to be going away to his parents' place on the Island. If he has to go away for a weekend "with friends" or for a ball game, he will be certain to absolutely refuse to let his girlfriend go along, becaue he is really planning to spend it with one of his other girlfriends. He will also be constantly late to call, or to show up for dates. This is because he is trying to fit too much dating activity into too little time. If you call or confront him on any of these things, you will find he refuses to admit anything, tries to flip it around so it is your fault, becomes abusive, and eventually just shuts you out and refuses to talk about it. If you find it odd that Peter Orr seems to call his parents an aweful lot (generally, at least twice a week), and hides in some other room to do so, that is because it is odd. Why would a man who allegedly visits his parents so often, call them so frequently? The answer is: he doesn't do either. And in the majority of these cases, he is talking to another woman, and is brazen enough to do so right in front of you.
If you hear other women in the background when you are speaking to Peter Orr on the phone, or find items belonging to other women in his place, he will claim that she is just a friend whom he is helping out because she needs something done, someone to care for a pet, or perhaps a place to stay.
In other words, he's the nice guy, and she is just needy enough to take advantage of his kindness. In truth, she is probably just as seriously involved with him, and just as in the dark as you are. This is because Peter Orr absolutely wheedles women into "exclusive" relationships. If you claim that you want to end the relationship, or just date other people, he will probably say almost anything to prevent it, and claim that doesn't want to share you with someone else.
Peter Orr likes unprotected sex, and will attempt to guilt trip you into having it, by claiming that he cannot climax if he has a condom on. He will often use the excuse that this is the side-effect of the anti-depressant medication he claims to be on, and will even use this story to cover for his inability to have intercourse (when he is really just spent).
If Peter Orr seems to clean his sheets excessively often, and makes mad dashes to the bathroom to clean it before you take a shower, it is probably because he needs to get rid of telltale signs of the other woman in these places. This is particulary an issue when he is seeing women with different hair colors.

"I took my sleeping pills last night, and was out cold."

"I am going to see my parents for the weekend."

"I am going camping with my friends, and you weren't invited."

"I have to go away for a ball tournament--a bunch of the guys are sharing a room, so you can't come."

"I am sorry I am always late, but people don't change over night. I don't want to talk about this now."

"I owe you an appology. I don't know why I lied. It's something for me to work out with my consellor."

"I have to call my parents."

"She's just a friend, who is down on her luck, and really needs someone to take care of her cat right now."

"I can't stand the thought of you being with another man."

"I'm sorry, I think it is the condom. I can't come with them on. But it's only important that you enjoy yourself."

"Intimacy is the way I express closeness, and I feel closer to you without a condom."

"I am sorry, it's not you. I think the anti-depressants make me impotent sometimes."

"Wait! Let me clean the tub for you first--it's important to me. I think it is really gross showering in a dirty tub."